Break the cycle. Restore trust. Find each other again.

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Are you and your partner ...

Feeling disconnected, stuck in repetitive arguments, or lonely in the same room? Whether you are navigating the heavy fallout of an affair, feeling the spark fade under life's pressures, or quietly shutting down - I'm with you.

Rather than giving up, you're here because you want to understand what keeps happening between you. Together, we will slow down the storm, expose the pattern, and build a pathway back to honest communication, repair, and deep emotional safety.

Call 07734 364362 or text me, to book your free check-in with me (online), without any obligation. All questions are welcome.

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Untangling the patterns that keep you stuck

Our sessions are entirely non-judgmental. We do not look to blame one partner or decide "who is right." Instead, we actively focus on:

  • Repeated arguments: breaking free from the exhausting cycles that go nowhere. I won't just sit back and watch you repeat your familiar struggle.

  • Emotional distance: overcoming defensive walls, tension, and silent shutdowns.

  • Betrayal & affairs: navigating the pain openly to see if trust can be rebuilt into a new beginning.

  • Reclaiming intimacy: creating a safe, vulnerable space to talk about desire and erotic blocks.

  • Conscious separation: if needed, helping you gain some sense of completion as you let go. You can build foundations for future relationships, or for cooperation together where you've got children.

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A roadmap rooted in science and truth

I blend two of the most tested and successful relationship frameworks available, to offer you a clear roadmap out of conflict - Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), and Relational Life Therapy (RLT).

EFT - slowing down to regulate and feel safe

picture of an intricate, deeply woven tree root system Grounded in attachment science, EFT looks at our fundamental human need to feel securely bonded. When stress enters a relationship, we often get caught in defensive traps.

By slowing the process down, I help you both tune into what is truly happening underneath the anger, transforming reactive spikes into soft, secure connection.

RLT - standing as equals

picture of intertwined vines Developed by Terry Real, RLT focuses on fast, practical behavioral change. True intimacy requires both partners to stand on equal ground—neither "one-up" in grandiosity nor "one-down" in shame.

We look directly at your relational stances, expose the "losing strategies" that block love, and teach you the exact communication skills needed to live relationally.

The path back to each other - an overview

  • First session: we map your repeating cycle using recent examples.

  • One-to-one sessions: meet individually to explore your experience of this relationship, as well as childhood and past partner wounds.

  • Couples integration: we return to joint sessions to calm trigger points and forge enduring bonds.

I bring sensitivity, deep listening, and a commitment to creating a safe and collaborative atmosphere. Geoff's BACP membership logo including my member number As a member of the British Association for Counselling & Psychotherapy, I work to their ethical framework.

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